cheat

WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?

GUYS
+> peer pressure : his single friends want him to be one of the guys. so in order to get their approval, he has to show them that he is a player. this prove that guys care their face.. ^^

+> fear of confrontation : he wants to break up with his girl but doesn't want the drama. so he cheats and hopes she'll find out. (it seems easier than talking it over!) so smart.. not!

+> the thrill : it makes him feel good to be able to get another girl to like him (even if someone already does!). and he isn't too afraid of getting caught. guys need the safe feeling.

GIRLS
+> craving closeness : she doesn't feel like her boyfriend has been opening up to her lately. so she hooks up with someone to get the intimacy she needs. sad lor.. BF doesn't here for girls.. =x

+> revenge : she's angry at her boyfriend, so she hooks up with other guy to get back at him and prove that she could have any guy she wants. girls are mean guys.. *grins evilly*

+> attention : she's secretly worried that guys don't find her attractive, so hooking up (temporarily) makes her feel better about herself. girls need the safe feeling too..

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